Society and the Pressure to be Perfect
December 8, 2011
I don't even see why people still use the reference 'self esteem', because almost no one has any, anymore. It's truly pathetic what people have come too. Then you have those models in megazines, they're fake. They hide under ten pounds of makeup and some photo shop editing software. Girls and boys dream of being those people, the media has kids starving themselves, scarfing and barfing, hacking away at their wrists and thighs, killing themselves. What are the parents supposed to think of this? Their child intentionally abusing themselves because they either get bullied or they want to be like perfect porcelain. Except no one can be perfect, because perfect is just a word people stamp all over to feel perfect.
Perfect is never the same, perfect is the impossible. Perfect is different to everyone, in which: no one can be perfect. I mean if you were ask me, I'd say perfect is Marianas Trench. Although, almost one to no one would agree with me. What is most awarded for being 'perfect' though, is being skinny, pretty, and popular.. three traits that any girl or boy would die for. Well, not every, but most. What is so good about be skinny, pretty, or popular anyway? Sure, you have more friends and people like you, but how do you know that's not all fake, how do you know people don't just like you for your looks? Shouldn't just be personality that matters, because what I've come to realize is that the pretty, skinny, popular people are all rude and have fake as hell personality's.
What do people have against being themselves anymore? I always believed that if you were yourself people would like you, clearly, I was mistaken. Basically if you pretend to me nice, or if you come up with a funny dis, etc, etc. People will worship you. Why do people envy the people with good looks, and terrible personality's? I bet if you saw the 'ugliest' person, with the most beautiful personality, you wouldn't think twice to not talk to them. I know not everyone is like that, but the majority of the population of teenagers is. The worst thing is when people look up to celebrity's though.
Most girls and boys look up to people like Katy Perry, Lady Gaga, the Kardashians, Selena Gomez, etc. When they're the one's prancing around in their birthday suit or bras and crap on television. They're also caked in makeup and designer clothing, how do you think that is making an impact on your children, or other teenagers? It's going to make them feel fat, ugly, gross, not good enough, they all start going to desperate measures to make themselves look and feel like those girls on T.V. It's just not right, society is ruing our teens, even worse – it's ruining us.
The Pressure To Be Perfect Essay
The Pressure to be Perfect
In today's competitive society, a person strives for perfection, due to the fact
that so much emphasis is placed on one's outer appearance. No matter who we are
or where we live, society puts this pressure upon us. We are typically faced
with this pressure by models on television and in magazines. Companies seem to
have targeted women more so than men. They usually use women with good looks and
nice figures to advertise and market their product. When companies use these
women in advertisements, it is setting a standard that other women feel that
they need to follow.
What has happened to internal beauty? Society puts so much importance on
external beauty that people have forgotten about an individual having beauty
within. The sayings “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” and “beauty is only
skin deep” come to mind when I think about just how much emphasis is placed on
A major factor that has increased the percentage of overweight people in society
is technology. This includes items such as elevators, escalators, garage-door
openers, drive-in windows, and the remote control. It use to be that you would
at least burn some calories by having to get up and turn the channel on the
television, but thanks to technology it is now a push of a button. Just think,
things have the possibility to grow increasingly worse because of the
'information super highway'. There is no need to get out and walk the malls in
search of a particular item or gift. With the use of the 'super highway' you
just need a credit card and the item is delivered to your doorstep. Can
technology be causing more harm than good?
One of the most disheartening facts is that there are people and companies that
are benefiting from those who continue to struggle with weight loss. Magazine
publishers boost sales by promoting articles on how do lose weight. Book
publishers and self-improvement Gurus profit from the diet books and weight loss
programs that they sell. Where as, manufactures capitalize from the selling...
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